A young woman saw her neighbor hanging the wash outside.
"That laundry isn't very clean," the young woman said to her husband, "She doesn’t know how to wash clothes, maybe she needs better laundry soap." Her husband looked on, but remained silent. Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comments.
A month later, the woman was surprised to see nice clean laundry on the line and said to her husband, "Look, she finally learned how to wash! I wonder who taught her".
The husband said, "I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows."
And so it is with life.
What we see when we look at others depends on the window through which we look.
This is an e-mail I got from a friend and it struck me how true that is for all of us. How clean are your windows? Most of carry carry some dirt from the past, which causes biases and judgement. How do we clean our windows? By getting rid of the past issues blurring your lenses.
Forgive all the people that you hold a grudge against, whether they were wrong or not.
Just repeat the following 4 sentences:
I am sorry
Please gorgive me
I love you.
These 4 sentences are quoted by Ihaleakala Hew Len, Phd. You may find amazing results when you repeat these 4 sentences all day long. Try it out, I am interested in your results.