When you feel that your world is falling apart because of:
- Relationships destroyed
- Finances in the pit
- Health issues
That’s when you may need an overhaul of your life. When problems become overwhelming, then this a signal that major "repairs" of your soul need to be done, even a complete renovation.
First, sit back and ponder:
- Where did things go wrong?
- How do I overcome this?
At this time an inspection / introspection of your soul is needed.
It may be a good idea to sit quietly by yourself, close your eyes and focus your attention within, on your breath. Without judging yourself, look at the picture of your life and just observe what you see in a detached manner. Take some deep breaths. If you find yourself caught up in your emotions, re-direct your attention to your breath. Try to look at yourself with empathy and compassion and embrace the inner you, with all of your positives and negatives. Imagine the love you have for a small child (your child or grandchild) and transfer that love to the inner you. Feel a sense of unconditional love for the inner you.
When you have achieved a sense of calmness, then you are ready to start dealing with your issues one by one.